Getting the girl of your dreams is a lot like getting the car of your dreams. But unlike a car you can always bargain for, there’s nothing like a 20 percent discount to woo the girl of your dreams, she’s such a sweet thing to be discounted, you’re deeply in love with her and your feelings for her. it can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl really depends on how big your heart is: weak heart, the fair lady never won.
The first step in the exercise of winning hearts for any man is to make a good impression. By doing so, you don’t have to talk, dress, or do the common things all Toms do to get the attention of a decent girl. Be unique, that’s all you need. To be a man with his own style. Dress decently: indecency can cause one to be mistaken for arrogance; Watch your language: obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, of being uneducated and cheap; be a man of good habits – don’t drink or smoke like any other loser.
Let him fall in love little by little. Romance is an important part of falling in love. When I was in college, I fell in love with the most beautiful lady in our freshman group. Even though all the older boys were going to look for that girl, I managed to draw her attention away from the other boys. I wrote her three letters without revealing my identity and slipped into her room in secret; all I said was ‘Your secret admirer’. The first letter contained the meaning of her name, I got this by playing with the initials of her name to give it meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and it was about her physique and her intelligence. In the third letter she told the girl to be ready to receive a rose from her admirer, but only if she was kind enough to call him at a number she had included in the letter. The girl called me on the phone that same night, and her first words to me were, “Hello, secret admirer.” This is how the story of our love story was born. She told me later that it was very creative of me, no one had ever approached her like that. She made her fall in love with me romantically.
Making friends and understanding the girl you want to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, she loves to be adored, and she needs to be needed. This will bring you closer to the girl and you will know what she likes, what she likes and doesn’t like, and what her style is. Love is based on friendship and always leaves people better off knowing each other in case they get separated. My college sweetheart and I were going to break up some time later, but to this day, we are the best of friends. Make sure that bringing out the selfless friend in you will make her create a place for you in her heart.
A shoulder to lean on and a good friend she can always turn to is all a lady wants. Please don’t hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who reignites his hard-working zeal and brings hope back into his life when he loses hope. This, above all other things, will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she will have found that friend with whom she can open up, share and advise each other on the good and the bad, the dos and don’ts of life. Don’t forget to always be there to celebrate the good times and lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen to her like a friend.
Make the girl feel special; because she is someone’s friend, your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and alone. Show appreciation for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.
In your daily conversations, share your dreams, your world and all aspects of your life with your girl. He always dreams with her, builds with her, and always encourages and encourages her. Tell your girl that you always think about her, even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that it’s the first thing you do in the morning and the last thing you do when you go to bed at night.
Knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped under the softness of your blanket and gave yourself over to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her say ‘my my’ and her heart will sing your name all year long.
You have to be creative and constructive to keep the girl’s interest in you so full of life. I remember once I told my girlfriend to imagine that we are both deaf and dumb. We then sit across from each other at the table and begin to share our feelings using eye and hand signals. It turned out to be kind of fun. There was also one time when we were in the library and we decided that we weren’t going to speak verbally, so I wrote a love note on a piece of paper and passed it to her on the table, she responded and we went on and on. we continued our love talk on paper until we almost used up an entire edge of paper. At some point, I noticed that some of the guys sitting at the table with us were enjoying our ordeal more than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that we play deaf two years after we broke up, can you imagine that?
Never stop calling her, even when she least expects it. I once called a girl I was interested in at four in the morning. When she asked me what was she doing up so early, I told her that she was in the thirteenth heaven, where people think of her loved ones when they can’t sleep. wow! First thing the next morning, she was at my door with a big hug for me.
No matter how many dates you take her, don’t do any elbowing, overdoing movements after any date, just drop her off at home and with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don’t kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a knight will be earned by your patience with her when it comes to matters like kissing her and accessing her inner graces.
It’s written on the wall that you want her, but you still can’t have her. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get sometimes. Make her realize that when she’s feeling a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, really bored, and really cold, she’s actually missing the you vitamin. At that time, she will be very interested in you and since love is sincere and characterized by open and honest communication, she honestly promises her your undying devotion, loyalty, respect and unconditional love for life. Show her that you will always be there for her, to listen to her and hold her hand, and that you will always do everything to make her happy and feel loved.
Remember, patience is the key to his heart; be like that gardener who looks at a fruit as it hangs on the tree, admiring it day after day, but exercising tremendous self-discipline, not feeling the fruit, not pinching it, not tasting it to see if it is ready. And then one day he reaches out his hand and the fruit just falls into it, ripe and warm and eager to be eaten.
The patience and self-control you practice will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as their daily vitamin and win that heart of theirs.
I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams as soon as possible, to fall in love with you and to feel like the happiest girl in the world!