They say time keeps slipping by. For those of us who know love or long to find it, we know that the same pillars of time apply to it. Love is tricky enough to be called a science. Whether you have it and feel like it’s fading or you’ve tried it before and want to bring it back into your life, there are laws like physics that you have to apply. Therefore, discovering love needs you to look at not only the ways to find love, but also take into account the times in which we live.

It is possible to be married or in a relationship and yet not have love. Such a situation is more or less the same as that of someone who has never loved and wishes to make love an integral part of her life. Whether you’re looking to rekindle it or find it, here are some impediments caused by the times we live in that you just need to overcome if you want to snuggle up in love.

Address

One of the most important things about discovering love is recognizing that times have changed and so have the places where one would expect to find love. There was a time, not long ago, when you could walk down the street or walk into a cafe and find love. However, nowadays, life is so busy that it is a hallucination to assume that such a movie set can find love. In the same way that you are overwhelmed with the daily rules that provide you with a life, the person you hope to give your love to is struggling to live a basic life.

The answer here is to place yourself on the path of love. Don’t look at clubs or important social gatherings as the perfect opportunity to find a better half. Instead, look for the quiet settings of people who have the same things in common as you. For example, if you love to read and you want a partner who does the same, sit in the park and read a book. If you build it, he will come.

Entertainment

Never before has anyone lived in a time when there were more distractions than we have today. Couples sit in bed with laptops or tablets in hand, wake up to the morning news, and listen to music on their commute to work and back home. Dating is full of media ads and trying to perfect being a socialite that becomes literally impossible to be you.

The solution to discover love here is to learn to turn them all off. Leave the iPhone at home from time to time and just listen to the fluttering of the butterflies. Without trying to have some ‘alone’ time, there is no way to move towards love in abundance.

Discover

One of the worst things in life is staying in a comfort zone. Human beings as a species are made to be in constant growth and development. Even married couples finding love can make the mistake of staying in a comfort zone instead of constantly finding ways to make love blossom. Those who have tried their luck in love, but all in vain, should not decide that it is useless. Don’t stay in the comfort zone. Realize that you get older and with age you must find new ways to grow in the same way that a muscle conditioned to do the same amount/type of exercise will not expand anymore.

Simply put, if you want to find love or rekindle the dying flame, look in the right direction and be ready for it. Avoid all the distractions today that aren’t really worth tomorrow. Always dare to discover new things.