If you’re asking, “Can my boyfriend and I get back together?” then there are things you will need to know. Of course, answering that question is also up to the two of you. Here are some things you can do to improve your chances of getting you and your boyfriend back together.
The first thing you can do is show that you have learned from your mistakes and have changed. If things didn’t work out the first time, it’s because of things you both did, and unless you change what you did, it’s just going to happen again. One of the things anyone can do is start taking her partner for granted or not treating her as well as they should, and everyone needs some time and attention. In particular, men need some admiration and respect. So, check out the things you can do to tell him that you love him.
The next thing you can do is help him remember the good memories you shared together. Remember the girl you were then, when you first got together. Think about what it was that she found attractive about you back then. Did you stop being the fun-loving, confident girl, did you stop doing some of the things you used to do to spend all your time with him? Maybe you’ve changed, and you’re not the girl you once were. Watch bring back the happy and exciting woman he fell in love with at the beginning of their relationship.
Even if you are suffering, support your ex boyfriend. Even as just friends, they will leave the door open to rebuild their relationship later on.
Perhaps his friends didn’t approve of you, and that could have been a factor in your breakup. They may see something in you that they feel is not compatible with your lover. Do not charge; Use this to your advantage. Use the information they are pointing out to you to bring out the best in yourself, if not your ex-boyfriend, so that your next relationship will benefit from your learning. As you make these changes, your friends will surely notice. Remember, they will try to influence who you date.
One of the strongest attractions you can have on your boyfriend is to remind him of the good times. If you can get him to remember how good it felt when you shared those happy memories together, he can begin to reconnect again.
If you weren’t interested in their hobbies before, now is a good time to explore them and find out more about them. Go out and do new things, and meet new people. As you get involved and interested in new things, you will also become more interesting and he will notice the changes.
Work on your exterior and make sure you are well groomed and as attractive as possible. While who you are on the inside is more important than how you look physically, looking attractive does two things. When you look good, you are more likely to feel better about yourself. You feel more confident about yourself and this is attractive to men, and looking good physically is also attractive to men. They like to show off their girls, it’s a man thing!
Stay positive and think positive thoughts. Your ex will be attracted to the happy, sunny woman that you are, not the depressed or complaining woman that you are.
The last thing is to give your ex some space. Don’t try to chase him or give him the impression that you’re trying to win him back. Let me chase you. Be the woman he fell in love with and draw him back.
Even when a couple breaks up, if they shared a love together, they don’t suddenly stop loving each other. So how you behave directly after the breakup will have a huge impact on the likelihood of you and your ex boyfriend getting back together.
Even if you don’t get back together, becoming a happier, more attractive, more confident, and interesting woman will soon attract another boyfriend to you.