Do you have an excessive fear of gagging, swallowing, and choking, to the point that you can’t do ordinary things like eat or have oral sex? If so, you are not alone. The sensation of having the throat closed, preparing to emit what is inside, is not pleasant. It is not designed to be. The gag reflex is designed to facilitate vomiting, which is one of your body’s main defenses against ingesting harmful substances. It is also a defense against choking: the muscles of the throat contract in an effort to help the body expel the dangerous foreign substance that blocks the digestive tract. Unfortunately, some people are so traumatized by the experience of retching and choking that they develop a true phobia. They are on the verge of panic every time something comes into contact with their esophagus. Every sip of food becomes anxiety-laden.
how phobias work
Unfortunately, the mind affects the body more than you might expect. Thus, the gag reflex and the sensation of fright are closely related to each other. In fact, your state of mind is a big part of how your body determines whether or not to allow you to place an object down your throat. If you love to eat horseradish and swallow a large quantity of it while in a state of calm and pleasure, your throat will easily accept what your mind perceives as a tasty morsel. On the other hand, if you hate horseradish and you’re convinced your body can’t handle it, your throat may close up and you’ll end up retching.
A self-perpetuating phobia
In other words, the anticipation of gagging on something will make it much more likely that you will gag. This not only applies to food, but also to other foreign objects that are inserted into the throat and mouth. If you stay calm while your dentist or throat doctor probes you, your visit will likely be uneventful. On the other hand, if you are afraid of choking on the doctor’s instrument, your throat will convulse, confirming your fear.
Never fear gagging, swallowing or choking again
As described in the previous paragraph, a severe preoccupation with the unpleasant weird feeling of your throat muscles contracting as they struggle to expel objects can become a serious impediment in your life (including your sex life). Fortunately, NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) and hypnotherapy techniques work very well to rid your mind of its unwanted responses.
NLP retrains your mind
Whenever you experience the adverse reaction that leads to unwanted gagging, your mind follows a consistent and predictable thought pattern in response to a given stimulus (ie, the sensation of something in your throat). Regardless of why your mind works the way it does, NLP techniques can help you recondition it. Through a combination of NLP and hypnotherapy, you can learn to put yourself in a calm and relaxed state of mind at will. Then you can learn to associate that state with the same triggers that normally cause you to choke. In this way, after a few sessions of NLP and hypnotherapy, you will never again have to fear retching, swallowing or choking.