Hey guys, would you like to rent a “female head” for a few hours? Have you been agonizing over your breakup trying to figure out how I’m going to get my ex girlfriend back? After all, guys like to fix things; Correct? But how can you fix it if you don’t know what he’s thinking right now?
Well, as a woman, I’m going to give you “insider” information on the female mind and emotions so you know exactly how to change the game state and make that first vital opening move that will get you on your feet. go back to the door to get your ex girlfriend back.
The first thing I’m going to tell you is to cut off contact… yeah, I know your heart is probably urging you to text, email, or call her a lot urging her to get back together. with you, but I’m here to tell you that it just won’t work! It’s human nature for us girls to want what we can’t have…and if we not only think you’re ‘easy’, but also find you acting ‘needy’, then chances are we’ll run a race! mile! In the opposite direction that is!
Breaking contact will immediately change the playing field. Since the breakup, your ex girlfriend has probably been able to predict your actions if you’ve been trying to contact her a lot with the desire to get back together through texts, emails, or calls. Imagine for a minute that this suddenly stops… of course she’ll start to wonder what’s going on. “What’s wrong, she hasn’t called?” she will probably start to wonder to herself. She may even start wondering if you’ve moved on and found someone else, which will instantly arouse envious emotions from her and make her want to claim you as her own.
Most of all, though, cutting off contact will make you a man of mystery in his eyes and put you a little out of his league. And what happens when something is “just out of reach” for us girls? Of course we started to want to have it. After all, haven’t you experienced this by seeing your ex girlfriend wanting a bag, shoes or an outfit that she can’t afford? Well, this is the same principle.
Cutting off contact will also give you a break to process whatever led up to the breakup in the first place. As you bombard her with requests to get back together, she has no room in her head or her emotions to do this processing; She’s busy deflecting your pleas! Girls need to process things and talk about them with their friends; this is how we work. We can’t let it all in or we feel like we’re going to explode! So don’t feel threatened by this, even if it’s the opposite of what guys do, which is to keep things to themselves and try to work it out themselves. If you allow him the freedom to go through this process, you will be doing yourself a huge favor. As she works through the breakup issues, she can calmly and logically put into perspective whatever issues she had that caused her to leave the relationship.
Now that you’ve given it some space, you’ll probably find its contacting your! Just keep your tone and conversation light and upbeat. This will keep the lines of communication open and give you a fantastic opportunity to open the door to rekindle your relationship and have your ex girlfriend in his arms again. (Just don’t tell her another woman sold it!)